Friday, November 14, 2008

Bobby G, Single... and Struggling With It.

Single...Its kinda weird to say. I haven't been for 5 years, (and will not be officially until Dec 11, but in my own mind I've been single for a few months) The game has changed. I'm not in tune with it. Now I always had the ability to date girls hotter than i should. I get by on the combo of good looking enough but with a FANTASTIC personality (not to toot my own horn lol) I'm very outgoing, fun to be around, and funny. But where I now struggle is with confidence. I haven't struggled with that since HS. I'm very confident, bordering on cocky at times lol, but I have recently had troubles approaching girls I don't know. 2 things help: 1. Alcohol, 2. Alcohol. When i have a few drinks I can talk to anyone, but I cant be drunk 24/7 lol. I'm really not ready to start dating yet anyways, I just need to hangout, get to know people, and have occasional sex lol. That's also scary. Sex. STDs, babies, and emotional attachment. Haven't had to worry about those things either. Its going to be fun though. There are many beautiful people, some of which I have met recently. I'm excited about the prospect of meeting new people. That's great because I love people! I also like attractive people, which is also good hitting the bars and clubs, there are many of them around. Basically as I ramble on I need my loyal readers to hook me up! lol. The best way to meet someone is through a friend. It's a comfort zone, it takes away the randomness of the whole situation, it also builds trust. I basically just need a cute, funny girl, who isn't jealous and would ride on a Harley, if you know anyone LET ME KNOW!


Becky said...

1. You do not want a girl you meet in a bar or club. Not for a relationship, and not for hooking up. You'll probably end up with an STD because women who hang out in clubs all the time past the age of 23 are usually kind of skanky.

2. You should give yourself some time to be single. You can't be happy in a relationship if you aren't really comfortable with being alone as well.

3. I don't have any single friends, so I can't really help you out with a hookup. Unless you become gay. Then I can help you.

Bobby G said...

I already have a gay walk lol & I like musicals, but no im not gay. Agreed on the bar or club chicks for a relationship. I plan on giving it some time, 5 yrs is a long time, so I need to be 22 again for a bit.

Bobbie Leigh said...

I agree with everything Becky said.

Phil K. said...

ditto what becky said. Spend some time single and enjoy yourself. And I don't mean masturbate excessively, I mean have a good time being you for a while.